You have to get out. Abuse in relationships does not go away. Your partner may promise to change or promise to talk to counselors or pastors, but the abuse in relationships gets worse over time. You cannot change your partner. Staying in the relationship will only make you more emotionally and materially attached to your abuser. The longer the relationship lasts, the harder it is to escape.

Breaking up is the most dangerous time. If a victim of relationship violence is going to be seriously injured or killed, it will most likely happen as that person tries to escape the relationship. It is important to plan for safety and make sure that you tell people who can be part of your safety plan. Use these links to learn more about how to get out of a violent relationship:
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