Talk to Someone

Tell Someone What is Happening: if you are in a dangerous relationship, it is very important that you tell someone about what is happening.

Who to tell? It's best to talk to your parents, teachers, or other authorities who have more resources and power to deal with the situation. There are some reasons why teens might not be comfortable talking to their parents or teachers, but it is still important that you talk to someone about your situation. Even your friends can help.

Stay connected: An abuser's anger and jealousy will often drive victims away from family and friends. It is important to keep in contact with people who can give you emotional support and keep you from being isolated. Staying in touch with others will help you stay in touch with yourself.

Friends can keep you safe: You may need others to help with your safety plan by giving you a ride or a safe place to run. If your friends know what is happening, they can stay alert for things that seem weird or other signs of trouble, and they can call for help in case you don't check in after a date. If you are in danger, you may need to hang out with groups of friends to stay safe at school or when away from home.

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